SECRET OF MARRYING ON TIME

THE DOULOS SECRET CODE

Sometimes, it is easy to ignore a key to a big door because we are tempted to compare the size of the key to the size of the door; but things do not necessarily work that way. The test of wisdom can be seen in our ability to recognize the solution no matter how simple it may be and to follow through with it even if that simple solution is expected to solve or end a lifelong crisis.

The solution Pastor Ndaeyo found seemed quite simple and easy; in fact, it seemed too simple to solve such a serious problem, but months later, results proved that he had found am ancient secret code that could work where prayers and fasting sessions barely had any results. His church members were regular at the prayer and fasting meetings; they had been regular for years and yet nothing significant changed. However, months after using the doulous code, the effect was very impressive.

‘Doulous’ is the Greek word for ‘service’. Service in God’s kingdom implies sacrificing to make sure that whatever concerns God is well taken care of. When you do this with the right motive and attitude, God, in turn makes sure that those things which concern you are handled. This is a very vital weapon that terminates marital hindrances and delays.

In the Bible, Ruth’s service became a bridge to her God-given spouse. She forgot about her personal needs and focused on taking care of her mother-in-law even when what bound them together – her husband – was now gone. She refused to let Naomi walk alone and chose to sacrifice the rest of her life to making sure that Naomi was taken care of. It was in the course of her service to Naomi that she met and married Boaz and some generations later, Ruth becomes part of the genealogy of Christ.

Another example is that of Zechariah and Elizabeth who both childless were at old age. While Zechariah stayed in the temple attending to his priestly duties and serving God earnestly, God sent His Word to them. This shows that God knows where we should be serving per time and when He wants to bless us, He sends that blessing to meet us at the place of our assignment. It also shows that God keeps records of our prayers. Zechariah was not praying for a child when the angel came to him, he was serving in the temple; but God had heard his prayers and sent him the answer that day.

God can choose to answer our prayers at His own time and He can answer it in a way different from what we expected. You may have prayed for him to move the mountain but He rather empowered you to fly over it so you can develop wings in the process. One thing is sure, if you do your part, you should be at peace because whatever God does and however or whenever He chooses to do, it always turns out to be the best way to handle the situation.

 God also knows that people are idle in the kingdom and He knows who to bless, and for what to bless each person.

Scripture also record Rebecca and Zipporah’s experience at the well where they served their fathers. Rebecca met Abraham’s eldest servant who took her to Isaac while Zipporah met Moses too at the well. These men were set to be at that place at that time; if these women had refused to go out for their duties on those days, they would probably not have married the men they married. Even if they got to meet and get married to them later, it only means that they would have had some extra time, probably years, of single-hood added to them for neglecting their place of service.

The reward of service in the kingdom is not transferable. Reward of service in the kingdom is not conferred on groups but individuals.

In the book of Corinthians (1 COR 3:8), the scripture rightly puts it thus: everyone shall be rewarded according to his labour. You cannot expect to be rewarded by another person’s labour. (Paraphrased) The quality of your service in the kingdom of God is very necessary to positioning you for marriage on time and breaking marital delay.