Relationship in University

CHAPTER THREE
RELATIONSHIPS IN THE TERTIARY INSTITUTIONS

Relationships are the bedrock of your life. Everything rises and falls with relationships. Your success or failure in the tertiary institution will be determined by the kind of relationships you are involved in when you are there. There are relationships that will plunge you into a mess and there are relationships that will push you into a massive success. In the tertiary institutions, people contract relationships that end up in glorious marriages while some others, live in regrets. Some people entered into some relationships that introduced them into cultism. A number of people will add to you while others will subtract from you.

RELATIONSHIPS YOU NEED
Academic Coach/Mentor
Mentorship is a personal developmental relationship in which a more experienced or more knowledgeable person helps to guide a less experienced or less knowledgeable person. The mentor may be older or younger in age, but certainly advanced in the area of expertise. It is a learning and development partnership between someone with vast experience and someone who wants to learn.
A mentor is a special kind of helper who works with others in a positive, constructive way so that both mentor and protégé have the potential to grow through the relationship.
QUALITIES OF A GOOD MENTOR/COACH
Leads by example
Has seasoned experience in your field and willing to share skills, knowledge and expertise
Has integrity
Shares similar values
Gives advice based on experience
Helps you learn what they don’t teach in school – or the practical aspects of your career
Desires to help others succeed
Has positive experience
Has a good reputation for developing others
 Has time and energy to devote to mentoring
 Has up-to-date knowledge
Has a learning attitude
Creates opportunities and opens doors
 Knows your strengths and abilities
Wants you to succeed
Wants you to be independent
 Is a continuous learner
Communicates hope and optimism
Provide guidance and constructive feedback.
 Is respected by colleagues and employees in the organization and the professional community
Sets and meets ongoing professional goals
 Values the opinions and initiative of others
He motivates others by setting a good example.


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